I am a LARGE woman.  With nice pretty blue-green eyes and soft short, red, curly hair.  I wear glasses.  And I even have a picture of myself on my web page.  It is about a year old, but here I am standing with my husband.  He is rather nice and big and cuddly as well.  And I love him very very much.  He is so SEXY.

And although I am learning to accept the person on the outside as well as on the inside.  I still remember what was said to me when I was younger.  I was called "shamu" by kids and my own brother, I always heard.. "you have such a pretty face, if you would just lose some weight then you would be such a beauty."  What does that mean anyway.... that I was fat ugly hag and would never be beautiful unless I was skinny?  DO parents really think that works when they tell kids that?  Because maybe i missed something along the way.

I just think that somewhere down the road... parents and people in general need to be more accepting.  People are not about what they are outside... what makes us unique and special is what is inside us all.  And to any of you, that may want to be linked with my page but find any one section of my page to be "upsetting" do not bother to be asked to link up....  I change for NO ONE.

Below are some nice links of a BBW nature and such.  Hope you enjoy them. I suppose what is really sad, is I went to Gay Zoo which is Gay Search engine, and looked up BBW.  The only listing was my own web page.  It is so sad.  To think that there are so few sites out there to connect us.

-Blessed Be